Sex, as we all know, is the mating in order to produce more. But Sex is known to be more than just that these days, as we crave for pleasure, fun, and excitement. Thus, in most or all relationships sex has been a mean of communication of lovers through body contact, as the body speaks for itself. The body speaks in many forms of language as one can suppose, yet I would not go deeper in it as I assume most people know their own body very well. Hence, sex is also a bonus in a relationship to go further into the affection of love. Yet, when sex occurs in relationship it has been taken as a tool to control the relationship as well. Surprisingly, not many people are aware of this manner as life after sex has a change and that bites the relationship.
When a guy and a girl meets, I would refer to those with "Love at first sight" cases and those who feel the chemistry after a long friendship, they are often the couples that are very dramatic as they would often face many problems that leads to a downturn of the relationship. So at first stage, when the couples are newly together into a relationship hence many things would seem to be a happy-go-lucky type and very tolerance most of all. Both, guys and girls, are very tolerate when they just got together. But as the journey goes on for long, they will still be tolerance at some point because the understanding between each are well gave in by both. But of course, Sex known as the bonus, would often come after one month of the relationship and mostly 4 months because girls love to play hard to get! Then, some couples are even faster because of the desperation then they can hit off instantly, but that’s usually the kind that walks away the next day because guys love to play one-night-stand so girls are often cheated.
Now, stage two is where it all begins the moment sex is taken into account. As mentioned, during the process of sexual intercourse the body speaks in many different types of form of language, some are cool and some are not. In fact, when sex speaks it literally allow most females to express their aggressions, weaknesses, anger, frustrations, and most the originality of themselves. That is why guys can be quite choosy when it comes to have sex with the right partner because it is not just the orgasm that a guy would want, but in actual fact it is how the body speaks. Yet, of course, many guys do not seem to see or take sex as a form of communication because they are blinded by their desperation of enjoying pleasure. Sex is only pleasurable when it is done with Love and Affection, because these 2 elements are the core recipe for a pleasurable and unforgettable sex because the body that speaks is exceptional in a way that they express the art of love and sex in definition in a relationship. Thus, sex is often only a game to be played because it is in men’s recognition of having and unleash their desperation which are why they often leads to many failures of relationship. Besides, as we all know most females have hormones problems because their hormones are the rulers of all. Women are driven by their hormones to do many things, sometimes they are driven with anger and desperation in sex. So it is not very often that all females would enjoy sex because it has to depend on their mood (So guys, respect your ladies!), as they are times where everyone would feel tired. Thus, sex is not something that can be enjoyed when the time is not right because there are times for everything. Now, when a couple first encounter their very first sexual intercourse they would often learn many things from their partners because it is the very moment that they unleash the truth within themselves as in their personality and attitude. Again, some are aggressive, weak, and angry, as that is why some sex becomes quite hardcore at some point. A guy is able to see how good he is capable of satisfy his girl up to the point when the girl is able to show her orgasm to the highest climax, and also able her to express herself through sex by showing her sexuality as to satisfy her man as well. Then, from there you will be able to tell who will be in the control of the relationship in the further state. This is because when one partner, either the guy or the girl, has greater satisfaction capability then the other half would often crave and hungry for it. Thus, this would lead to a situation where one is in control by another because there is something that he or she demands and he or she desires. So one will definitely lose control somehow because one is able to give the satisfaction and one is able to take it in as a greater satisfaction has been shown. It is about how sexy or exotic looking each partner can be because great looking people don’t mean they are great sex partners, as some of them might even be a coward or not knowing what to do in sex.
So, the aftermath of a sexual intercourse would result in an imbalance situation of the relationship. Then, this is the moment where many problems can be occurred, such as either one partner is not very happy, or one is very obsessive or possessive, and one may be very reluctant and not giving in, one may be very stuck up and selfish, etc. These are the problems that lead to a down fall of a relationship after sex, because the sexual relationship is not being well taken care of after all. There are girls who feel depress and sad that their boyfriends do not bother much about them as before the sexual relationship starts, then some guys might even feel degraded by their girlfriends because of the insecurity given in the sexual relationship. Gradually, things do change in certain ways after a sexual relationship because two relationships are involved to be one. Sexual relationship and Partners’ relationship because these are the time when both have to compromise and appreciate each other. If either one does not compromise or appreciate each other, then the equation of the relationship would just fall apart and result even more problems to encounter. So, in order to have everything back to a constant pace of a good relationship, it is important for both partners to understand each other as well. Very caring and understand, it is often of the best ways to re-correct or re-divert a relationship to a better stage. Even though some relationships may be in stake as one might be giving up and one is not giving up, time is always the healing power to all. Some guys or girls may think their partners can’t live without them, but in actual fact this a very incorrect thought because you are losing each other even more. That is some guys or girls may think they are really good rocking on the bed, but actually somebody out there is even greater than what you think you are because the world is big and they’re tons of people out there with great personality as well. Then, some couples do not realize how precious their love ones are not until the moment they lose them. By that time, perhaps desperation is even more and more often it comes to an obsessive state where one can be very devastated after all. The reasons why guys or girls would cheat on their love ones is often the question and answer of sexual capability; some may say size is a problem or figure is a problem but the actual and real problem is themselves. As mentioned, sex is a form of communication through the body, but the reason why these people remain unsatisfied is because of they do not appreciate what they have and unable to express their own true self through sex even though they are good but the chemistry of that sexual bond is just not there when one does not imply Love and Affection into the sexual relationship, as it only satisfaction of orgasm and ejaculation that they are looking for. Thus, if you think you are a great sex partner but in actual fact there is a down turn in your relationship, perhaps you should start looking into it because the problem is actually within yourself.
Sex is not just a game to be played because it is an art of the body language. Proper sex would often last a relationship because of the dignity and respect of sex is well kept throughout the relationship. It doesn’t matter how the body figure is, but if one is capable of having passionate love and affection then a sexual intercourse could go far beyond the heavenly emotion. Pay your partner with respect and integrity, appreciate them because the love you have for each other doesn’t come without compromises. The nature of love is adoring and affection for the heart. Hence, have sex in a proper manner or else just don’t do it for God’s sake!
“Yea, I completely agree with you. You know, an art teacher of mine once said. Never buy a piece of art that you don't have to have. You know, don't worry about who the artist is or how much it's worth. I mean, you have to live with it everyday. You have to walk by it everyday. You have to really love it; you have to really appreciate it. It's kind of like picking a mate.” – Brooke Meyers, The Break Up.
By Jack Ho
When a guy and a girl meets, I would refer to those with "Love at first sight" cases and those who feel the chemistry after a long friendship, they are often the couples that are very dramatic as they would often face many problems that leads to a downturn of the relationship. So at first stage, when the couples are newly together into a relationship hence many things would seem to be a happy-go-lucky type and very tolerance most of all. Both, guys and girls, are very tolerate when they just got together. But as the journey goes on for long, they will still be tolerance at some point because the understanding between each are well gave in by both. But of course, Sex known as the bonus, would often come after one month of the relationship and mostly 4 months because girls love to play hard to get! Then, some couples are even faster because of the desperation then they can hit off instantly, but that’s usually the kind that walks away the next day because guys love to play one-night-stand so girls are often cheated.
Now, stage two is where it all begins the moment sex is taken into account. As mentioned, during the process of sexual intercourse the body speaks in many different types of form of language, some are cool and some are not. In fact, when sex speaks it literally allow most females to express their aggressions, weaknesses, anger, frustrations, and most the originality of themselves. That is why guys can be quite choosy when it comes to have sex with the right partner because it is not just the orgasm that a guy would want, but in actual fact it is how the body speaks. Yet, of course, many guys do not seem to see or take sex as a form of communication because they are blinded by their desperation of enjoying pleasure. Sex is only pleasurable when it is done with Love and Affection, because these 2 elements are the core recipe for a pleasurable and unforgettable sex because the body that speaks is exceptional in a way that they express the art of love and sex in definition in a relationship. Thus, sex is often only a game to be played because it is in men’s recognition of having and unleash their desperation which are why they often leads to many failures of relationship. Besides, as we all know most females have hormones problems because their hormones are the rulers of all. Women are driven by their hormones to do many things, sometimes they are driven with anger and desperation in sex. So it is not very often that all females would enjoy sex because it has to depend on their mood (So guys, respect your ladies!), as they are times where everyone would feel tired. Thus, sex is not something that can be enjoyed when the time is not right because there are times for everything. Now, when a couple first encounter their very first sexual intercourse they would often learn many things from their partners because it is the very moment that they unleash the truth within themselves as in their personality and attitude. Again, some are aggressive, weak, and angry, as that is why some sex becomes quite hardcore at some point. A guy is able to see how good he is capable of satisfy his girl up to the point when the girl is able to show her orgasm to the highest climax, and also able her to express herself through sex by showing her sexuality as to satisfy her man as well. Then, from there you will be able to tell who will be in the control of the relationship in the further state. This is because when one partner, either the guy or the girl, has greater satisfaction capability then the other half would often crave and hungry for it. Thus, this would lead to a situation where one is in control by another because there is something that he or she demands and he or she desires. So one will definitely lose control somehow because one is able to give the satisfaction and one is able to take it in as a greater satisfaction has been shown. It is about how sexy or exotic looking each partner can be because great looking people don’t mean they are great sex partners, as some of them might even be a coward or not knowing what to do in sex.
So, the aftermath of a sexual intercourse would result in an imbalance situation of the relationship. Then, this is the moment where many problems can be occurred, such as either one partner is not very happy, or one is very obsessive or possessive, and one may be very reluctant and not giving in, one may be very stuck up and selfish, etc. These are the problems that lead to a down fall of a relationship after sex, because the sexual relationship is not being well taken care of after all. There are girls who feel depress and sad that their boyfriends do not bother much about them as before the sexual relationship starts, then some guys might even feel degraded by their girlfriends because of the insecurity given in the sexual relationship. Gradually, things do change in certain ways after a sexual relationship because two relationships are involved to be one. Sexual relationship and Partners’ relationship because these are the time when both have to compromise and appreciate each other. If either one does not compromise or appreciate each other, then the equation of the relationship would just fall apart and result even more problems to encounter. So, in order to have everything back to a constant pace of a good relationship, it is important for both partners to understand each other as well. Very caring and understand, it is often of the best ways to re-correct or re-divert a relationship to a better stage. Even though some relationships may be in stake as one might be giving up and one is not giving up, time is always the healing power to all. Some guys or girls may think their partners can’t live without them, but in actual fact this a very incorrect thought because you are losing each other even more. That is some guys or girls may think they are really good rocking on the bed, but actually somebody out there is even greater than what you think you are because the world is big and they’re tons of people out there with great personality as well. Then, some couples do not realize how precious their love ones are not until the moment they lose them. By that time, perhaps desperation is even more and more often it comes to an obsessive state where one can be very devastated after all. The reasons why guys or girls would cheat on their love ones is often the question and answer of sexual capability; some may say size is a problem or figure is a problem but the actual and real problem is themselves. As mentioned, sex is a form of communication through the body, but the reason why these people remain unsatisfied is because of they do not appreciate what they have and unable to express their own true self through sex even though they are good but the chemistry of that sexual bond is just not there when one does not imply Love and Affection into the sexual relationship, as it only satisfaction of orgasm and ejaculation that they are looking for. Thus, if you think you are a great sex partner but in actual fact there is a down turn in your relationship, perhaps you should start looking into it because the problem is actually within yourself.
Sex is not just a game to be played because it is an art of the body language. Proper sex would often last a relationship because of the dignity and respect of sex is well kept throughout the relationship. It doesn’t matter how the body figure is, but if one is capable of having passionate love and affection then a sexual intercourse could go far beyond the heavenly emotion. Pay your partner with respect and integrity, appreciate them because the love you have for each other doesn’t come without compromises. The nature of love is adoring and affection for the heart. Hence, have sex in a proper manner or else just don’t do it for God’s sake!
“Yea, I completely agree with you. You know, an art teacher of mine once said. Never buy a piece of art that you don't have to have. You know, don't worry about who the artist is or how much it's worth. I mean, you have to live with it everyday. You have to walk by it everyday. You have to really love it; you have to really appreciate it. It's kind of like picking a mate.” – Brooke Meyers, The Break Up.
By Jack Ho
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