People always told me how much pain Love can actually create or cause, and how much destruction it gives. Then, many people would start blaming Love is the cause to the falls of their lives, and Love makes them feel unconfident about their lives, and Love gives them no hope as the pain it has caused is too much of a burden. So you see, the destructions of all that love does to somebody have caused many factors to a person. It brings nearly all harms and destructions to everyone, so Love is always being blamed and said to be really terrible. That is why most people would always say it is best to be single because you get your freedom and do whatever you want and wish to, and you don’t feel a pain being single because no love or relationship to bother. Hence, that is what they call the happiness they feel without having love or a relationship is truly pure and peaceful.
So let me get this straight, perhaps it is best for people know things even clearer than they have thought. Now, relationship is the bonds or connections between two people, whether your hetero or homo, you can be in a relationship. The reason why people get into relationships is because they feel the chemistry between each other, then that chemistry is known as Love. So when a couple is together they are known as lovers because they have love for each other, and they wanna be with each others. What do lovers do when they are together? There are just too many to mention anyway, so the most common ones we know are spending time together, dating, walk in the park, holding hands, traveling, dining, etc. We all do these are because to develop the relationship to a further state as to improve the love bonds between the lovers, and also to understand each other more, or even to feel and give in more affection into the relationship. Thus, in relationships we can basically see the developments are all done by us, humanly, and it is said that why we do is because we love our lovers or our lovers love us. So, many men or women then would start to say they have done something for their love ones because they love them deeply, leave the word deeply aside and lets just focus in love, hence people or many people have would also have claimed they make sacrifices for their love ones because they called it true love. Some may even say it is true sincerity and loyalty from their hearts, honesty and modesty there are, and even being faith to anything they would do for their love ones. Thus, aren’t all these sound like it is what PEOPLE do and not what LOVE does? Yet, people would also claim it is for Love that they have done it. But, why for Love when it is for the ONE you love? Isn’t the ONE you love is more important than what you can do for Love? So in the end, people get really confuse about their relationships because they start to feel not being appreciated or not accepted somehow. That is also why many girls, today, have fallen out or being dumped from a relationship because the lack of the attention they need from their partners and NOT what they can do for Love.
Now, let me state this clearly. What is Love? People may say love is about two persons together, roses, sweet as chocolate, red color, feelings, money, sex, drugs, girls, guys, hottie, sexy, gorgeous, greedy for lust, handsome, and so on. So in many definitions, people are mostly misguided by what they do and what they see, or even what they want. In actual fact, love is only a feeling that is being felt in the heart as it is generated from the heart. Love is not an object that can be seen, or even the heart shape we see today has only been a creation by some illusionist that claimed that’s how love looks like. Love, indeed, is invincible as it can’t be seen at all as the existence of love has only been a feeling. How many people have seen Love anyway? Some may say they see Love through Sex, so sex is love to them, that’s pathetic somehow because it is only pleasurable in sex as a satisfaction to our lusts, or it can be said we wanna have sex because we feel horny. But Love itself is just a feeling from the humanitarian heart as a result that we, humans, have feelings and emotions within ourselves. When we feel love or loved, it is just the heart that tells us something is indeed valuable in our lives and it is not to be forsaken or forgotten as it is being loved or to be loved, and also to treasure it because it feels very precious and to be treasured. Love, hence, is felt by all of us because we are all humans. Yet, people start blaming Love is the cause for many matters and destructions. But how can Love does harm to us when it is invincible? It is not an object, it doesn’t move, it doesn’t seem to be a weapon that can be carried, it is not any sound wave or heat wave that can kill anybody, yet it is only a feeling. But, people still claim Love does harm as it has been called a weapon of choice that had led many people to do silly things and be pathetic.
But, the real destructions that Love brings is NOT Love itself at all, it is us, the Humans. Love itself is not an object that moves or can be seen through our very eyes, as it is only a feeling that can only be felt. Thus, humans have hearts, and it is only us who bring destructions or do things that we can do because we can move and we can be seen visibly. So the point is, it is not what Love can do to despair peoples’ lives but it is what people can do to despair or destruct others’ lives. Love itself doesn’t move at all unless we move ourselves towards something and approach it, and then we deal with it as a result it us who are to be responsible for what we do or what we have done. Two people don’t get together just by having Love in between or the feeling they feel, but it is the two people themselves who pull themselves together as it is the only feelings they have for each other. For example, guns are weapons that we see today as they’ve been said to be deadly and lethal weapon. So guns are deadly, but are they lethal when you leave there as no one pulls the trigger? Does it shoot itself at all? So guns don’t kill people, only people kill people by using or manipulating it. Thus, it’s not Love that does all harm as Love itself has no harm where as it is only a feeling for us to have caring and loving by appreciating what is around us, and have humanity in this world. It doesn’t cause pain or destruction because it is people who create those matters. Love is not a pain and not a betrayal of our lives, as it is only a feeling because the real pain and betrayal comes from our doings for we are capable to do many things but Love, is only a feeling that does nothing as it is invincible at all. The reason why feel pain is because of the fault that they get from their partners, not Love, as probably their partners cheated on them or have done something really wrong. Thus, the pain does not come from Love, as Love is only a feeling of affection, but the pain and everything that make us feel bad in the relationship comes from ourselves. Perhaps, it is even our own habits or behaviors to be considered as the cause of major breakdown of a relationship. Yet, people keep blaming it is Love that had brought all destructions and pain, as some even claimed Love is Hatred.
Love as it is, for we are humanly enough to feel as it is one of the element in the universe. Love people, is a feeling that stays in the heart, and not outside the heart. Love is Love, and it is nothing that can be compared to the feeling it gives and defines. For it is innocent as it brings no harm, because we must reach within ourselves and ask whether is it Love or Us that makes us do what we want or need? But what is for sure is we may have what we want, for what we need will always stay with us. Love is only a feeling of affection, for it is not a weapon because it is only a feeling that comes from the Heart.
By Jack Ho
So let me get this straight, perhaps it is best for people know things even clearer than they have thought. Now, relationship is the bonds or connections between two people, whether your hetero or homo, you can be in a relationship. The reason why people get into relationships is because they feel the chemistry between each other, then that chemistry is known as Love. So when a couple is together they are known as lovers because they have love for each other, and they wanna be with each others. What do lovers do when they are together? There are just too many to mention anyway, so the most common ones we know are spending time together, dating, walk in the park, holding hands, traveling, dining, etc. We all do these are because to develop the relationship to a further state as to improve the love bonds between the lovers, and also to understand each other more, or even to feel and give in more affection into the relationship. Thus, in relationships we can basically see the developments are all done by us, humanly, and it is said that why we do is because we love our lovers or our lovers love us. So, many men or women then would start to say they have done something for their love ones because they love them deeply, leave the word deeply aside and lets just focus in love, hence people or many people have would also have claimed they make sacrifices for their love ones because they called it true love. Some may even say it is true sincerity and loyalty from their hearts, honesty and modesty there are, and even being faith to anything they would do for their love ones. Thus, aren’t all these sound like it is what PEOPLE do and not what LOVE does? Yet, people would also claim it is for Love that they have done it. But, why for Love when it is for the ONE you love? Isn’t the ONE you love is more important than what you can do for Love? So in the end, people get really confuse about their relationships because they start to feel not being appreciated or not accepted somehow. That is also why many girls, today, have fallen out or being dumped from a relationship because the lack of the attention they need from their partners and NOT what they can do for Love.
Now, let me state this clearly. What is Love? People may say love is about two persons together, roses, sweet as chocolate, red color, feelings, money, sex, drugs, girls, guys, hottie, sexy, gorgeous, greedy for lust, handsome, and so on. So in many definitions, people are mostly misguided by what they do and what they see, or even what they want. In actual fact, love is only a feeling that is being felt in the heart as it is generated from the heart. Love is not an object that can be seen, or even the heart shape we see today has only been a creation by some illusionist that claimed that’s how love looks like. Love, indeed, is invincible as it can’t be seen at all as the existence of love has only been a feeling. How many people have seen Love anyway? Some may say they see Love through Sex, so sex is love to them, that’s pathetic somehow because it is only pleasurable in sex as a satisfaction to our lusts, or it can be said we wanna have sex because we feel horny. But Love itself is just a feeling from the humanitarian heart as a result that we, humans, have feelings and emotions within ourselves. When we feel love or loved, it is just the heart that tells us something is indeed valuable in our lives and it is not to be forsaken or forgotten as it is being loved or to be loved, and also to treasure it because it feels very precious and to be treasured. Love, hence, is felt by all of us because we are all humans. Yet, people start blaming Love is the cause for many matters and destructions. But how can Love does harm to us when it is invincible? It is not an object, it doesn’t move, it doesn’t seem to be a weapon that can be carried, it is not any sound wave or heat wave that can kill anybody, yet it is only a feeling. But, people still claim Love does harm as it has been called a weapon of choice that had led many people to do silly things and be pathetic.
But, the real destructions that Love brings is NOT Love itself at all, it is us, the Humans. Love itself is not an object that moves or can be seen through our very eyes, as it is only a feeling that can only be felt. Thus, humans have hearts, and it is only us who bring destructions or do things that we can do because we can move and we can be seen visibly. So the point is, it is not what Love can do to despair peoples’ lives but it is what people can do to despair or destruct others’ lives. Love itself doesn’t move at all unless we move ourselves towards something and approach it, and then we deal with it as a result it us who are to be responsible for what we do or what we have done. Two people don’t get together just by having Love in between or the feeling they feel, but it is the two people themselves who pull themselves together as it is the only feelings they have for each other. For example, guns are weapons that we see today as they’ve been said to be deadly and lethal weapon. So guns are deadly, but are they lethal when you leave there as no one pulls the trigger? Does it shoot itself at all? So guns don’t kill people, only people kill people by using or manipulating it. Thus, it’s not Love that does all harm as Love itself has no harm where as it is only a feeling for us to have caring and loving by appreciating what is around us, and have humanity in this world. It doesn’t cause pain or destruction because it is people who create those matters. Love is not a pain and not a betrayal of our lives, as it is only a feeling because the real pain and betrayal comes from our doings for we are capable to do many things but Love, is only a feeling that does nothing as it is invincible at all. The reason why feel pain is because of the fault that they get from their partners, not Love, as probably their partners cheated on them or have done something really wrong. Thus, the pain does not come from Love, as Love is only a feeling of affection, but the pain and everything that make us feel bad in the relationship comes from ourselves. Perhaps, it is even our own habits or behaviors to be considered as the cause of major breakdown of a relationship. Yet, people keep blaming it is Love that had brought all destructions and pain, as some even claimed Love is Hatred.
Love as it is, for we are humanly enough to feel as it is one of the element in the universe. Love people, is a feeling that stays in the heart, and not outside the heart. Love is Love, and it is nothing that can be compared to the feeling it gives and defines. For it is innocent as it brings no harm, because we must reach within ourselves and ask whether is it Love or Us that makes us do what we want or need? But what is for sure is we may have what we want, for what we need will always stay with us. Love is only a feeling of affection, for it is not a weapon because it is only a feeling that comes from the Heart.
By Jack Ho
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