Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Ugly is a Beauty

I came across this thought long time ago and never really got a chance to put them up in words, so after last night's incident of fallen out with a good friend who I suppose have much hatred for me now. Thus, that was an inspiration and drive for me to write this article. Ugly, it has been seen a terrifying physical outlook of a person that does not seem to be attractive at all. The outlook often is being judged in a matter of how awful looks can be, and haunting at some point. Of course, many people or most people would often judge someone by their looks as that is the first indication of what they are, and not who they are. So in terms of this matter, people always being very particular about whom their friends are and that somehow result the neglectful behaviour. Sadly, people are often being treated in a way that causes misunderstanding and very little respect precisely.

As we all know, people can be fat or thin, depending on their physical outlook. Yet, most people are often distracted to those who are thin, because they look great as most people would say. Now, it doesn’t mean somebody has the beauty that has been re-defined as a perfection of all is truly beautiful because no one is every perfect. Everybody comes with certain things in life, during the moment we were born, and it can be anything or just about anything. Yes, guys love them beautiful girls indeed as there is not denial in this matter. But yet, nobody would admire a person with an awkward personality. She can be hot, but her attitude is bad, so how should we define this? Not perfect! It doesn’t mean that beautiful people are great because they have their own weakness as well as other people. Thus, no one is ever perfect in this world. Beautiful people have their own world at some point when they start to differentiate themselves from others, which is to be defined as “narcissist” because they think they are the greatest where as they are not in fact. This why people are lack of moral and ethical values these days in order to treat others with respect and integrity. The world has changed so much due to globalization as a matter of fact it is Mankind who made the changes after all. For no one to blame on this matter because it has been in the decision of our very own hand, because that is how we do in order to improve ourselves. Sadly, many people have been ignored and mistreated at some point just because of their outlook.

Fat people, we know them big, ugly and round. Now, what is wrong with people looking fat? What is so guilty about being fat? Just because other people keep laughing doesn’t mean those who laugh are the greatest. Fat is just a definition of the amount of fat that is within the human body. Everybody’s got fat in them, yet we can’t live without fats because that is the source of energy for us to do out daily work or activity. Skinny people, they have little fats of course that is why they are weak and look terribly ill. I don’t see girls who are skinny and thin consider being pretty because the physical conditions they have made them look like as if they are infected with diseases or malnutrition. In fact, they look worse than fat people because fat people look healthier. Even fat people may seem to have unhealthy lifestyle, but starving yourself everyday by the obsession of losing weight is even worse because you are damaging your own body systems. That is why skinny girls do not have the ordinary shape of the right breasts, no butts, and of course filled with bones. In fact, FAT PEOPLE aren’t that bad after all because they are happy people. It is the moment when they eat they feel happy, so does everyone because eating the tasty foods we want makes us happy. People just can’t simply be judge by the appearances they have, because appearances are just cover of deceptions and the reality is that what is more truthful is the beauty within the heart.

It is not wrong to be fat as what matter most is the personality. A girl can be very sexy and beautiful, but she is nothing when she has a bad and awful attitude that would be seemed disgusted by many somehow. Thus, it is the personality that counts and not just the look!

By Jack Ho

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