Sometimes I just don't really get to understand what a girl thinks after all as their doings would really turn your brain into tonnes of questions. As to this, the most serious common problem that I see and speculate is the amount of abusive relationship that girls encounter these days. Some girls may seem great and gorgeous or having a good time in the relationship, but the real fact lies behind.
Most girls are either being cheated or beaten up by their boyfriends these days, it is cruel indeed. But no doubt, in a logical and sensible manner are to leave and walk out of the relationship for the sake of not being killed. Yet, these girls do not save themselves but letting such horrible and terrible things happen to them, not just once, but over and over again. Why would they wanna suffer and feel torture? Is it really worth dying for the person they love? Is it really worth losing own lifestyle and exile for the rest of it? I asked around a few girls and I was shocked by the answers given.
A girl said to me she felt great being controlled, she likes to be scolded, and she definitely likes to be abused. Okay, that girl is only 16 and I assumed that she's still very naive and immature so perhaps that explain why, but yet it is not sensible enough because she likes pain thus it does explain that she has mentality problem. Then, another girl who has a friend who is so beautiful but yet she is often abused by her boyfriend for the past 5 years. She was beaten up using a baseball bat, and constantly being scolded and yelled at, and certain times being punched or slapped. It was said that this guy is her first boyfriend and she is so much in love with him, but I definitely think that guy is an idiot after all. Just because when a girl is so in love and begin to lose herself, yet the amount of pain and nightmare she can bring to her life is well being accepted by her because of the sacrifices she would wanna make in order to detain the relationship. Girls like that do feel helpless and hopeless because to them it is the end of everything if they lose their love ones.
Sometimes I really pity people like that because they are just so helpless, even though people try to help them yet they won't accept help because they themselves are the problem. In many cases, they were given choices but it is often rejected because they feel the need in the relationship is not worth giving up. Life is out there and whole lot more, it is not just about one guy or one girl because at the end of the very it is still yourself who gets to enjoy your own life. Why exile yourself in fear and pain when you're given the choice of a better life? Things don't always come in the way you want but yet better things do come when it is all least expected. People gotta learn to appreciate all the little things they have and not dying for something galaxy away. There is no point in waiting or staying where as you don't move on after all, because the only set back is you get older while your friends around you are moving ahead with greater joy. It is not that bad to let go of the past at all because everyday is a new day where every new second brings a new journey of life. See things more in a way where you're open to opinions and suggestions because these are the guideline to a better and healthier lifestyle.
As for the guys who are being abusive, I agree it is in the mentality of men's ego somehow. I've seen how men treated women with inhumanity; it is a total disrespect to the human race. Some men think they are the greatest and no one else can say another word other than themselves; yet how great are they when they are nothing in themselves at all? Men can be really stupid too and not just women, because men possess the mind of possessive power as they think they are in control in everything. The world comes with a balance of humanity, everyone gets to speak and talk so it is not just one person or species that is in control of everything. Thus, the egoism in a men or their lifestyle are totally a disgrace and stupidity in them.
Girls can be very forgiving and caring then again everything's got its limit so be wise, but yet they can be very fragile as well because it is what they are. Stop abusing them because they are human being as well and not some filthy animal as we are all human. Wake up people and be clear of your own life, tomorrow is a new day and the next second is a new beginning. Get a change!
By Jack Ho
Most girls are either being cheated or beaten up by their boyfriends these days, it is cruel indeed. But no doubt, in a logical and sensible manner are to leave and walk out of the relationship for the sake of not being killed. Yet, these girls do not save themselves but letting such horrible and terrible things happen to them, not just once, but over and over again. Why would they wanna suffer and feel torture? Is it really worth dying for the person they love? Is it really worth losing own lifestyle and exile for the rest of it? I asked around a few girls and I was shocked by the answers given.
A girl said to me she felt great being controlled, she likes to be scolded, and she definitely likes to be abused. Okay, that girl is only 16 and I assumed that she's still very naive and immature so perhaps that explain why, but yet it is not sensible enough because she likes pain thus it does explain that she has mentality problem. Then, another girl who has a friend who is so beautiful but yet she is often abused by her boyfriend for the past 5 years. She was beaten up using a baseball bat, and constantly being scolded and yelled at, and certain times being punched or slapped. It was said that this guy is her first boyfriend and she is so much in love with him, but I definitely think that guy is an idiot after all. Just because when a girl is so in love and begin to lose herself, yet the amount of pain and nightmare she can bring to her life is well being accepted by her because of the sacrifices she would wanna make in order to detain the relationship. Girls like that do feel helpless and hopeless because to them it is the end of everything if they lose their love ones.
Sometimes I really pity people like that because they are just so helpless, even though people try to help them yet they won't accept help because they themselves are the problem. In many cases, they were given choices but it is often rejected because they feel the need in the relationship is not worth giving up. Life is out there and whole lot more, it is not just about one guy or one girl because at the end of the very it is still yourself who gets to enjoy your own life. Why exile yourself in fear and pain when you're given the choice of a better life? Things don't always come in the way you want but yet better things do come when it is all least expected. People gotta learn to appreciate all the little things they have and not dying for something galaxy away. There is no point in waiting or staying where as you don't move on after all, because the only set back is you get older while your friends around you are moving ahead with greater joy. It is not that bad to let go of the past at all because everyday is a new day where every new second brings a new journey of life. See things more in a way where you're open to opinions and suggestions because these are the guideline to a better and healthier lifestyle.
As for the guys who are being abusive, I agree it is in the mentality of men's ego somehow. I've seen how men treated women with inhumanity; it is a total disrespect to the human race. Some men think they are the greatest and no one else can say another word other than themselves; yet how great are they when they are nothing in themselves at all? Men can be really stupid too and not just women, because men possess the mind of possessive power as they think they are in control in everything. The world comes with a balance of humanity, everyone gets to speak and talk so it is not just one person or species that is in control of everything. Thus, the egoism in a men or their lifestyle are totally a disgrace and stupidity in them.
Girls can be very forgiving and caring then again everything's got its limit so be wise, but yet they can be very fragile as well because it is what they are. Stop abusing them because they are human being as well and not some filthy animal as we are all human. Wake up people and be clear of your own life, tomorrow is a new day and the next second is a new beginning. Get a change!
By Jack Ho
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